Attracting

What exactly consists the general term of being attractive.

I think I am attractive, yet, when walking around, I don't seem to fetch many looks.

Online, I get hit on a decent amount. Well, that is considering, I am on more dating sites that I would ever admit to. Most of the time, people just want a quickie. I frankyl don't reply. I could if I really wanted to, but meh...

Still, a lot of times, I can chat with a person online, or on the fine, things are fine. But apparently I don't exude an air of attraction when walking around.

There is of course reasons for it. While I am confident, I see my flaws to much, and there is a decent chance that people can feel that. Still, i am working on them, and they are something that is becoming insignificant. Comaparing to how I was in the past, I have improved leaps and bounds. I used to be socially inept, and most of the time walked with my head down. I can walk with my head up now. I smile around people, and I can talk without issues.

People are attracted, and I like that. I have gotten complemented, and that's rather nice. I don't live for that, but I don't shy away from it either.

So, there is no troubles in my world, but there is room for things to flow more decently. I do have to stop comparing myself with all the other people. I find some many different people, with different attitudes, looks, etc attractive. So, there is no point in trying to attain anything they have.

The point is to improve myself, for my own benefit, if other people like it along with me, all the better. *grins*